Everyone Can be Taken Advantage of.

This is a concept that a lot of people don't understand.  Regardless of faith, status, relationship, gender, sexual orientation, or presence you CAN be taken advantage of.

Social media makes us see everything from the things we want to see to the things we don't care to see.  Transgender bathrooms seem to be a hot topic right now, huh?  I won't be talking about that though.  No, I'm going to talk about something else.

Do you think you're immune?  Let me clarify this.  You have a body and someone can just reach out and touch you.  You are not immune.  By you I'm not referring to just a woman or daughter I mean YOU a man, woman, young female child, young male child etc.; the whole shebang.  Also, by someone I don't mean a transgender woman or a man I mean a man, woman, young female child, young male child etc,.

A lot of people can vouch (whether they want to or not) in their minds that it can be anyone.  You may not know them or you may.  They could be your friend who came with you to the bar who told you they'd watch out for you when in reality they were just waiting for you to get so wasted that they could take you home unsuspected.  It could be your co-worker who just put their arm on your shoulder in a promiscuous way without asking and you weren't okay with it.  It could be a family member.  Look, people don't want to admit there's a problem with these things and yet they'll mesh and merge together two TOTALLY different things together and say they're related and need to be dealt with just to start some stupid battle that has nothing to do with them.

I won't be one to judge whether a person is messed up in the head until I see proof of what area they're messed up in.  People will do what they want with their own bodies whether your religion says it'll put them in Hell or your moral compass is facing South.  People will also do fucked up shit and it's the shit they do that needs to be evaluated with THAT person and within the court system.  I won't be scarred for life because I see someone wearing a "designated" gender's clothes and I also won't assume that person wants to be the opposite sex, but I WILL agree that a person who violates someone else's bodily freedom and will should get an appropriate punishment.  Does a few years to no punishment at all really fit the crime?

Now what WILL scar me is politics... Goddamn politics make my head hurt.

Anyway, lemme know your opinions in the comment section below and also keep an open mind, you're not the only human on Earth nor are we all the same.  Of course, don't let me stop you either.

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Lack of the Ability to Entertain One's Self and Nip Slip

So I was sitting here with my husband right before I was going to start typing this for tonight and he brought to me his boredom.  Also, a blatant excuse to lay there and tell me about it.

We all get bored.  I just so happen to have something to do (which is the thing your eye(s) are directed upon).  So he asked me to give him suggestions.  Mind you right before he planted his lazy bum on the couch he came in from a smoke break and told me what he "might" do tonight.  I suggested that and a number of other things.  In turn he whined and complained they were all boring.

It's pretty hard to keep yourself entertained.  Especially when everything you do is within a routine, even if subconsciously you made it up yourself.  Game... bored of gaming, YouTube... bored of YouTube, eat... bored of eating, rinse and repeat.  I'm using free time as an example.

There are so many things you can do, even if they may not interest you.  They may even bore you FURTHER, but don't let that stop you from exploring the possibilities!  I get bored frequently, but I know there are SO many things I can and am able to do (I'm also the type of person to become OVERWHELMED very easily and quite often).

Now, I'm being pretty optimistic.  Sometimes it's just hard as balls to get entertained by something.  If you happen to be a person who needs a lot of stimulation then I'd opt for many hobbies and past times or find a yoga mat (or something like a chair... I don't know) to plant your body on and decide to take a trip to imagination land.

So to my husband who was sprawled out on the couch with half of his nipple hanging out, I have no idea what to tell you :P.

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On Days when the Hours just Melt Away

Today was one of those days, obviously.  I woke up around 10 a.m.

Usually, I'm awake before 8.  It was just a slow draining type of day.  YouTube was what was happenin' in the house when the baby wasn't screaming her head off for no god damned reason.  Some days I just want to sleep the day away or just restart it from the previous night.

When you go to bed will determine your next day.  Depending on the type of person you are when it comes to your sleep.  If you're good after three hours great, you can pretty much go to sleep whenever you want and you don't require much time to recover.  Though, if you need a significant amount of sleep(Like me...  I need at least nine but twelve hours is pretty much my heaven) then you should probably rethink when you're going to go to bed.

Well, why the hell didn't I get my ass to bed at a decent time?  Personal time, duh.  Plus, I procrastinate.  Fuck going to bed when I finally have free time after always having a monkey in my arms all day. 

"Why not put the monkey down?"  You may say.

My patience is pretty good but trying to figure a developing baby out takes time and trying different things.

But, aside from that I caught up on my missing hours by taking a nap from 11 a.m. to frickin' 4 p.m.!  Bye-bye day, I won't see you again!  I hate being unproductive and just down right lazy.  I get bored!  Watching YouTube is great and it can keep my entertained for like 20-30 minute intervals but MAN do I need something else during the day.  

Fuck these kinds of days!  Can I just have a coffee and some work stacked on my shoulders?!  

There's really not anything significant to point out in this post, I just really disliked today.  Time for some COD and then bed.  Peace.

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I Want to be a Better Gamer

Generally, when I think of gaming I think of also being proficient at it.  It's like a sport to me, if I'm not in the top I'm failing myself.  Of course there's nothing wrong with being "bad" at a game.

One game I'm pretty bad at is StarCraft 2.  I love this game to bits but rarely played it.  I think for what I played I'm pretty "ok" at it but I'm still a bad player.  I lose pretty much within the first ten minutes of playing with anyone else who casually plays a few times a week.  Usually, my reason for not playing is time.

Timing is everything.  If I don't have the time to sit down and play a thirty minute match either I'll attempt a quick match or I just won't play.  For me though, even within that quick match I like to improve on something.  Whether it's micro, macro, or just paying more attention to the time so I can expand and get my army a few more troops.

Another game I enjoy playing is COD.  Currently I've been playing Black Ops 3.  I prefer to play with my husband but I'll play alone from time to time if I'm in the mood.  I typically play with him though because he's a fucking beast at it.  No I'm not hyping him up, he is fucking Godlike in it.  Usually, he's at the top of the leader boards and he's barely trying.  I like having someone I can aim for (though don't get me wrong I DO enjoy playing with him even if he's not the best player).

Now, here's a few game screenshots of how I did tonight to kind of graze over how far I've come and after I'll share where I was K/D wise.

These are some good ones for me and I'm proud of them.  I will admit that I forgot to get the bad screenshots just because I was having so much fun BUT I will say I did 3/18 and 6/17 at two points tonight while playing.  Those are usually how I do.  Pretty fucking bad.  

Sucking at a game sucks, even if you enjoy it.  You can't always log off happy and sometimes (or a lot of the time) you rage mid game and say, "FUCK THIS SHIT," and proceed to throw the controller and turn off your Xbox in a whirlwind of hatred and agony.  It happens and most gamers relate.  Anyway, moral is keep going and on the days you give no shits, have a good bunch of friends, and can enjoy the good parts of the game then let that be the time you get better and enjoy it.  Or ya know... just play often.  You'll eventually start catching up!

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Idiot Gamers

No I'm not talking about all gamers, to quickly stomp on the breaks before someone crashes into this hoping for the wrong fight.

I'm referring to the self-centered idiots who drive themselves into a hole with their "insults".

Okay, so picture a younger gamer, who has yet to graduate high school and is making claims on COD as if he knows shit.  Yes, in five or ten years he may be the CEO of a new company and doing a fantastic job helping that company make it to the top but for now he's not.  People tend to talk major shit on Xbox, I do it from time to time.  Honestly, that's no excuse for being a pussy and fighting a losing battle when you've already talked yourself into a fat hole (clearly someone is slipping and sliding into a void of no return).

Here was the general "trash talk" he was dishing out.  That (A) my husband was trying to impress a girl on Xbox by being an asshole (This girl being me).  Side note about my husband, he is in general an asshole but it's in his nature to be sarcastic and just a plain charismatic jackass.  If you say something stupid he'll fuck with you.  (B) That in fact I wasn't his wife, I was his sister.  Since we both talked on each other's mics.  Last that (C) he was still trying to impress me.

I cannot point out enough how funny it was and those were just the main points he made.  I get a kick out of my husband trash talking trash talkers on Xbox but aside from that this kid said so much ignorant shit it was just down right hilarious.  I was also in on the conversation with this kid and it just made me want to see what kind of a person he was.  He eventually got into the topic of us living together and my husband living off my wages, which by-the-way I don't work, and continued to make a fool out of himself.  I won't get into how I feel about that statement in ITSELF but you can kind of get the idea of how I feel based off of me putting it in here.

Anyway, I thought I'd just share that experience with you guys.  Moral is don't let yourself get caught in a circle of idiocy and continue going with it as if you're right.  You'll have people talking about your dumbass on the interwebs.

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Welcome to My Blog about Me!

Hello and welcome!

  This is the place where I will be unloading what I can about myself.  I'm a very open person and I want the people who want to know more about me to KNOW this.

Alright now let's get right into this.  My name is Elenya Frain.  Simple, unless you know my middle name or want to pronounce my first name "correctly".  I'm married with a new child.  Gaming and art are my two favorite things even though doing art has pretty much been on the back burner and will continue to be until I can find the time to dedicate to it without being constantly interrupted.  I do draw occasionally, but unlike when I drew before, it's not for many hours at a time and I'm not nearly as motivated.

I love vulgarity, so there aren't any filters here and won't be bashing for anyone doing so, unless you happen to just leave a stupid comment then maybe some bashing will be invoked.  I WILL be writing any and everything that I want here.  From games, to sex, and to just life experience in general, so that's the gist of this post :).

Anyway, thanks for taking a general interest in me.  Let's have a great journey together!

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