Do you want to feel more confident in your body and your sexuality? This is for all you women out there who have never been to a strip club or feel like you shouldn't go because it isn't "lady-like". You may be thinking, "No way that isn't for me" or "Why should I go to a place where guys go to gawk over woman who are selling their bodies for money?" Well, I'm going to tell you why you should!
First, some back story about me. I'm a married woman with two young ones. I met my husband over 4 years ago in the military, after three months of dating we got married, and planned on having our first child immediately. I bet a few of you can relate, but a few of you may not, and that's okay! This is all about why I feel YOU can benefit from my experience.
My first experience at a strip club was also my husband's. To put it simply, we are a very open couple when it comes to communication and to be frank it gives us many opportunities to grow together. My husband's birthday was coming up so we had been discussing, with a close friend of ours, what we were going to do to celebrate. Well, the topic of going to a strip club came up and we were set on it! Oh, at the time of the event I was pushing 9 months pregnant as well.
Fast forward to the event, we've met up with our close friend and their group of friends(mostly women) a few hours before. Most of them pregame during that time and play a game where flipping coins is involved(I don't remember what the game was called, it's not important). After they're all thoroughly tipsy we head out to the club!
Upon arrival, me and our friend barely make it to the door when I am SWARMED by women working at the club! They are just fawning over my belly and the fact that I was bringing my husband here while so pregnant! This was one of those moments I will never forget because it made me feel so gorgeous and well... empowered! For me, going to a strip club with my husband isn't something I feel should be so rare. In fact, I think it's ridiculous that it's so taboo! The attention I got was something out of this world and it made me feel so good about myself.
Then, we get in and take some seats around the main stage. There's quite a few of us so we're basically taking up the entirety of the seats. There were a few other people in the club but they were spread out in further seating areas down the stage. The music starts up and the strippers start coming to stage one by one, after a song would go by they'd move to another section on the stage and a new girl would come up for her main performance. Seeing these woman up on stage coming up to you and showing it all, was definitely an amazing sight. What was even better for me was when they'd give the birthday boy, my husband, attention. I was in heaven.
I wasn't drunk but I could've sworn I was by how much I was enjoying this experience. Aside from me loving how much my husband was enjoying himself I was enjoying how these women made me feel. They gave me attention and commended me for being such an amazing wife and my husband being so lucky to have me. I may have went for him but I also went for me and they did not disappoint. Sexually and emotionally I was in a state of euphoria.
Now, that was my first experience at a strip club but I've had another one as well. This time, my husband wasn't in attendance. You may be wondering this already, but yes he was aware that I went and he was invited but decided against going.
This time around it was for my friend's 21st birthday! She really wanted to go after I mentioned about my experience so we made the plans, she invited more friends, and we went! It was a different experience this round; I wasn't pregnant and the strip club was fairly popular!
We all met up at her house and drove together to the club. I made it known that I would step up as DD, since she couldn't find one, so I didn't drink a drop of alcohol this time either. We got to the club, went through security, the boys ran to the bathroom, and I attempted to take out money only to find out their ATM was broken(just before they brought a sign out to hang on it). Well, then it was just me and my friend standing there while we waited for the boys. Soon my friend's approached by a drunk woman(who we found out later was one of the strippers) who starts inching to grab her *ss. Eventually she pulled at my friend's tights and pointed out that the tights were cute and that we're cute. It was quite the compliment and to say the least we were a bit surprised but also flattered. The girl left as soon as she came.
After the boys came back and we withdrew money, it was time to enjoy the actual stripping. These women at this club were definitely not amateurs! The amount of sex appeal they radiated was phenomenal to say the least. On a side note, at this strip club the most these woman revealed were their b**bs while at the first one I went to they took off everything so the sex appeal was high. My friends and I were living it up. I had to stop myself from making it rain with the little I had taken out!
Eventually, my friend went to get her first lap dance. She was accompanied by one of our friends since she was nervous, but let me tell you that girl came back with the biggest smile on her face. The night went forward and once again I was in nothing short of heaven as these beautiful women danced on stage. Each one of them gorgeous and confident! Their styles of dancing and ways of seducing all different, but enticing. Being front row and center to witness each one and admire them and their assets was a site and experience I feel everyone should experience. I'm glad I could accompany my friend for her first time to the strip club.
Aside from these woman showing "it all" there's way more about the strip club that no one takes into account. These women are putting themselves out there and OWNING it! They all carry themselves in a way that makes you want to give money to them. They've earned every dollar they're given by using, not just their bodies, but their minds. They know the way to look at you, the way to talk with you, and the way they can make themselves look good that will make you want to spend money. Most notably, every woman is different. They all have different stories, different body shapes and proportions, and different personalities that will make you admire them. As a woman, I loved seeing how different they all looked and acted on stage. It makes you admire them. None of them had a specific "look" or "standard" in physique and it was beautiful.
Near the end of the night I received a lap dance. The girl was so kind and beautiful. She said all the right things to make my head whirl and make me feel special. Her customer service skills were on point and if I had more money for another dance she would've sold me.
At the end of the day, I admire these women. They emit confidence that I hope every one of you can see and strive for, especially when standards these days for the "perfect body" are so stupid. Stereotypes for women are ridiculous because we're all different. The way the media causes us look at ourselves in the mirror and judge every "flaw" is disgusting! Why can't you look at yourself and love every part? These women have the confidence in their bodies to get up on stage and be open with their sexuality to make that money. You should have that confidence too.
